Most people think of meeting new people as exciting and fun, but you take it to a whole new level; you fall in love with almost everyone you meet. Well, you think you are totally and completely in love, at least for a while.
For you, meeting a new guy is like meeting, the one, over and over again. It happens to you wherever you go, anytime, anyplace. You have fallen in love with the perfect guy so many times; you think you might be starting to forget what real love feels like. This makes you seriously start questioning your instincts, and everybody you know is questioning your judgment.
As bizarre and ridiculous as this behavior makes you look, you really can’t help it. You do not go out looking to fall in love or hook up; or do you? You may be a lot more starved for affection and attention than you realize. As unaware of how much of what you do, screams for attention, it is not lost on the opposite sex.
Body language is a powerful form of communication and yours is begging for men to notice you, and the message is getting through loud and clear. Wherever you go you probably notice men going out of their way to grab your attention. You cannot help but notice it and be impressed by it.
At this point, all it takes is for one of your many admirers to be bold enough to make his move, and bam, just like that, you’re hooked. And you, being you, nothing is done in slow motion. You sense a guys desire to shower you with all the attention you ever wanted, and more, like a bear smells food. You’re drawn to it, and you don’t care what anybody thinks because you will not let anything get in the way of, what you think is, your fate. You are so completely in the dark about what you look like to the people who know you, that you share every detail of your new love with them like it’s the first time. You get so swept away, you don’t even notice all the eye rolling that your friends and family are doing.
After several disappointments and broken dreams, you are left feeling like you don’t know what to believe in anymore. You need to come to terms with how needy you are and try to find ways to fill up the void that you feel in ways that do not involve being with a man. Being in a relationship is not a bad thing, but being in several, hoping that one of them will be the one to save you, can rob you of ever being emotionally healthy enough to have a good one.
The sooner you stop rushing into the illusion of love for comfort, the closer you get to really having it. But it will not happen until you figure out what’s causing you to feel so empty, and make peace with it. Once you’ve been able to accomplish this you will be sending out a much different set of messages. You will know it’s working when you stop falling in love with everybody and starting being in love with that one special somebody.