There are a lot of places you can go to get information and tips to get yourself a man. There are advice columns, books, and movies. The tactics and tricks that you can learn from the countess, not so secret sources, go by many names and anyone can do them. These sources give very helpful ideas on how to get a man’s attention, his platinum credit card, and in very successful outcomes, his request for your hand in marriage. As exciting as this information is, it is lacking one bit of information that you may find useful; out of all the things you can do to capture a guy heart, simply being the woman you, are is almost foolproof.
Men are born to adore, want, protect, and love women; it really is that simple. It may seem like an unfair advantage for women, but it is what it is. Women did not have anything to do with the way men were born to react to them. As obvious as this concept is, it seems to be too simple for some women to believe. They wonder how it can be possible for them to not have to plot and scheme, or even seduce a man, into wanting them. When you think about it, it’s no wonder women have a hard time accepting this concept, most men are not even aware of what makes it so hard for them to resist a woman.
This perfect balance of supply and demand gets disturbed when women let themselves become convinced that they need to be more than who they are, to get or keep a man. If a man doesn’t respond the way we believe he should one day, or if we cannot seem to get the attention of a man who we have had our eye on, we immediately think that we have to do something to fix the problem. What women need to understand is that whatever a man is doing or thinking about at that moment, needs his full attention, and it has nothing to do with you. Chances are very good that he will be back focused on you as soon as he is finished processing whatever it was that had him going.
Of course there is a way to prevent his attention from coming back to you, or having it come back as negative attention. This is when we don’t keep being our sweet selves while our guy’s mind is occupied. The times when we want to stomp our feet and call our girlfriend to get some advice on how to make our guy notice and appreciate us, are the times we are most likely to do the complete opposite. Men’s minds like to go places where it’s nice and pleasant when it comes to women. It makes sense considering they love our soft skin, long hair, and how we smile when we see them. When we present ourselves in a challenging way to a man, he stops seeing us as the woman who makes his knees weak, and starts seeing us as his equal; which he will usually not be attracted to.
If a man makes a woman feel that she constantly has to be on the defensive with him, she may want to consider that she is in an unhealthy relationship; otherwise just enjoy the fact that you don’t have to do anything other be your sweet feminine self to capture almost any man.