You see them everywhere, men who walk around like they own the world. And in a strange sort of way, they do. Nobody likes a show off, or do they?
Men with high confidence levels are thought to be attractive by women, and even other men. But there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. This fine line between good energy and bad gets crossed often, and when it does, surprisingly, he who crosses it, is met with open arms instead of the cold shoulder.
If you think about it, you’ll find that it’s not really very much of a surprise at all, especially if the guy is especially attractive or charming. It’s also not uncommon for the arrogant guys to actually have more of an allure about them and be more successful than their confident competitors.
In the game of life everybody loves a winner and Mr. Big Shot is definitely that. He makes the money and he spends it on the finer things in life. He isn’t going so much for status as he is for luxury, but the status follows anyway. To his credit, he is smart enough to know that his biggest asset is himself. He takes great pains to take good care of himself; he knows that if he is going to sell himself to what he wants he has to keep his value high.
All the things that Mr. Big Shot does to stay on top of his game are just a part of what keeps him in demand. The rest has everything to do with the way he struts through every day, owning it without regret. He is not unapproachable or rude, but everybody who comes into contact with him just knows that they will be called upon to be at the top of their game as well.
The most attractive quality of Mr. Big Shot is the way he represents himself as being in total control of any situation that he encounters. He takes on problems and dilemmas with an ease that makes him look like he can handle anything. He does not show fear or doubt, and has way of making everybody around him feel comfortable and well taken care of. This makes him seem very dependable and capable.
Mr. Big Shot may not be everybody’s cup of tea; you either love him or you hate him. He definitely has the capacity to get under your skin if you let him. Sometimes he lets his success go to his head. But usually when only the best will do, he’s the one to call.