Are you currently considering a marriage proposal or recent engagement as you are mildly unsure that the reasons for your wedding commitment are the best possible for a truly sustainable lifelong partnership? There are good reasons to get married and there are reasons which are perhaps not quite as good for going through with a supposedly lifelong commitment to a person whom you hopefully do, and most certainly should, care about in ways incomparable with any other human in your world.
Regardless of the basic wisdom involved in such a statement, it would seem that many people still choose to tie the proverbial knot for reasons which may not be the wisest or most sustainable for a happy and healthy long term relationship with their chosen life partner. This can obviously end in a situation which potentially leads to annulment or eventual divorce which, in actuality, is possibly much more emotionally involved than either party really even considers prior to marrying for a reason which lacks any definite longevity, depth, and sustainability.
Here are a couple of primary reasons which, although all too common, may not be the wisest for going through with an emotionally and financially elaborate wedding ceremony. Let’s review them in some detail to better understand their pros and cons to help you better make a decision which is most appropriate for you in your situation.
Looks
Just because your bride or groom is the hottest girl or guy you have ever seen does not necessarily equate to them being the wisest choice for a lifelong marriage commitment. You may even be surprised to find that there are different kinds of beauty and your own tastes may even change slightly over the years. Marrying just because he or she has the best body you have ever seen also doesn’t necessarily mean it will be that way in ten years or more. Unless you have a fun, healthy, and happy friendship already blossoming with this person then you should likely start to really consider the possibilities that a long term situation that entering into a marriage commitment is likely to involve. [While it is certainly justifiable grounds for divorce if a person lets their personal fitness go soon or immediately after marriage, it could actually be emotionally traumatizing and certainly unfair to end a marriage years later just because of the natural ]
Money
If you have met that special someone who is most special to you because of their wealthy financial situation, then you are already a failure in love and life already. Don’t play with someone’s heart by marrying only for their finances as this is just a game that will inevitably lead to sadness. You should not be marrying anyone until you get your priorities in order and actually realize what is truly important in life and in the delicate hearts of human beings. Too many people who have been hurt too many times end up taking it out on other people to get back at those who hurt them. Just because you have been hurt in love doesn’t mean you should marry only for money.
Hopefully you can now make a more informed choice.