A lot of things have the capacity to make the most well put together person lose their grip for a while. Just the thought of getting swept away by emotion and how that may make us look is enough to cause some people to stuff their feelings and put on a false front. But what some people don’t realize is that coming undone over something is natural and can actually make a person look quite attractive.
Coming undone can be a deliciously freeing and liberating experience. Trying to mentally dictate how we release our overflow of emotions can prevent us from truly achieving that glorious state of the calm after the storm. It is always important to stay trained within the boundaries of what will not offend or hurt other people. And it’s never very attractive to behave selfishly or say or do things that you will live to regret. As long as you remain true to yourself and all that you truly care about, go ahead and come undone.
A particularly passionate and intense relationship will definitely be on the list of things that will unravel you, if you let it; so let it. Intensity of any kind will cause us to instinctually be ready to react, but we spend so much time conditioning ourselves to stay cool and not let on how we really feel, that we miss out on where the intensity can take us. Staying calm, cool, and collected, will offer some sense of knowing what to expect, but nothing is a sure thing.
Letting go of the ties that bind you to your control is something that not only feels good, but looks good as well. A person who acts out of passion for something or someone is on fire and it shows. Being undone in this way leaves little, to no room, for contrived actions or gestures.
Being willing to allow yourself the freedom of true expression makes you somewhat famous to the people who are around to watch. The lack of fear, and the pure rawness of letting your emotions go where they may, is enviable to many because it is not something that most people grow up learning to do.
Letting raw emotions surface where others can see them and we can feel them takes a while to feel comfortable doing, but it is something so worth doing. Let funny movies make you laugh uncontrollably. Let your feelings for your partner make you do crazy romantic things. If something really hurts you, cry like a baby. But whatever you do, never let yourself forget how good it feels to come undone.