There are certain qualities that a man can possess to make women covet him like a first place trophy. Just a few among many of those qualities is good character, being a hard worker, and having a sense of pride. Rarely would any logical thinking, sane man, expect to capture the attention, much less the affections, of a good woman without having one or more of these qualities. But expect it or not, they do.
There is a sub generation of men that includes men of all ages and economic backgrounds, who are skimming by with, what amounts to, little or nothing to offer a woman.
This is not about men who are unable to offer a woman the lavish lifestyle of the rich and famous because of physical limitations. Or the man who’s niche in life is physically demanding work that will never get him in Forbes, but will afford life’s necessities. These men may not have the competitive edge to get them great material wealth, but they often prefer it that way, and very often, have just as much to offer as their wealthier counterparts.
The men, who make up the sub generation zero, are the men who live with their parents, have a sporadic job history, if any, and do not feel particularly compelled to change anything about their situation. This type of man is profiled in the dating world, as well as the business realm. Their contentment with how they live, astonishes most of their peers, but doesn’t surprise them anymore. They have been around for a while, and their numbers will most likely increase as people become desensitized to them. One of the biggest contributing factors to their lack of motivation, are the women who get into relationships with them, just as they are; expecting nothing from them, but their time.
Surprisingly, the women who love these men, also known as losers, are not desperate or unattractive, but they behave as if they were. The women who get involved with men, who have nothing to offer them, often have one thing in common: little or no self esteem.
Self esteem is the foundation of almost everything we do, and dictates how we allow others to treat us. When a woman feels like she doesn’t’ deserve a good man, or a happy life, she will often feel like she has to settle for whatever she can get or she will end up alone.
Losers become winners with women who don’t believe they can get anything better. The way these women fall all over and jump through sexual hoops to accommodate and please men who do nothing more than sit back and receive all the undeserved attention they can handle, encourages them to continue doing nothing.
It seems like this type of relationship would satisfy both people enough for it to thrive and last, but they rarely do. Since the man never had to earn any of what he was given, he never learned how to value it. His lack of appreciation is eventually exposed when he is caught cheating with a woman who was willing to cheat with a man who had absolutely nothing; except a girlfriend.